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Your Sexual Bitching!

Here they are, your complaints about sex! Not too many, which is actually good. Now lets share our agreement or lack thereof:


Poll #822476 Your Complaints About Sex

Can't stand it when a woman won't "finish the job". If I'm expected to give full service oral I expect the same in return.

Totally been there.
3(14.3%)
Understandable, but it's never happened to me.
5(23.8%)
Disagree but am not offended.
12(57.1%)
Offended.
1(4.8%)

Men who are in too much of a hurry to get off.

Totally been there.
12(54.5%)
Understandable, but it's never happened to me.
5(22.7%)
Disagree but am not offended.
5(22.7%)
Offended.
0(0.0%)

I hate when I'm receiving oral but can't enjoy it because I'm trying to hold in a fart.

Totally been there.
13(59.1%)
Understandable, but it's never happemed to me.
6(27.3%)
Disagree but am not offended.
2(9.1%)
Offended.
1(4.5%)

When somebody has a sexual "trick" that they're really proud of that they keep trying out after I've made it clear it doesn't do much for me.

Totally been there.
12(54.5%)
Understandable, but it's never happened to me.
10(45.5%)
Disagree but am not offended.
0(0.0%)
Offended.
0(0.0%)

*blink*, *blink*. Um, I hate it when I don't have any?[sex]

Totally been there.
19(86.4%)
Understandable, but it's never happened to me.
2(9.1%)
Disagree but am not offended.
1(4.5%)
Offended.
0(0.0%)

I hate when I complain about not finding people who can keep up with me and people think I'm bragging.

Totally been there.
5(22.7%)
Understandable, but it's never happened to me.
10(45.5%)
Disagree but am not offended.
6(27.3%)
Offended.
1(4.5%)

She doesn't want it as often as I do :(

Totally been there.
11(52.4%)
Understandable, but it's never happened to me.
6(28.6%)
Disagree but am not offended.
3(14.3%)
Offended.
1(4.8%)

Hate when someone needs to be drunk or high to have sex, but then can't perform because thay are drunk or high.

Totally been there.
3(13.6%)
Understandable, but it's never happened to me.
18(81.8%)
Disagree but am not offended.
1(4.5%)
Offended.
0(0.0%)

It's squicky when one of the pets is "watching" us have sex.

Totally been there.
8(36.4%)
Understandable, but it's never happened to me.
5(22.7%)
Disagree but am not offended.
9(40.9%)
Offended.
0(0.0%)

Comments

These were kind of hard to answer on a scale of ‘agree’ to ‘offended’, since most of them were about individual personal experiences (rather than blanket value judgements applicable to other people). I guess you just need to get more judgemental friends. :-)
Hi, I'm not a member of this community, but I felt inclined to comment on the first question and why I answered the way I did.

I understood that it was probably meant to be for either sex and subsituted the word "person" for man when I answered. But either way. I think that yes, ideally, it would be nice for someone to "finish the job" that they started. But there are some instances, where it's just not going to happen. Like you can tell this person could be doing this for an hour and it's just not the right time or your mind is preventing you from truly enjoying it. I think it's only fair to tell the person, "thank you but you can stop if you want, because it's not going to happen anytime soon" in a way so they know it's not them.

The other thing I wanted to comment on (and I suppose I should have posted it in the original poll but didn't think of it) is that I find it annoying when a person is intentionally holding back. I mean, that's fine for a little while because you want to enjoy yourself for as long as possible. But when you're going for a while and they can see that you're starting to get tired and they're still intentionally not letting themselves cum when they could if they wanted to, I think it's only fair that they should understand why you stop.

I have no idea who reads this journal. But there, that's out in the open now. :-P
Given that most of these are personal complaints people have about sex (as opposed to beliefs) I'm not sure what it even means to disagree or be offended.

The first one bugs me if they expect that anytime they do something for someone, the other person is obligated to do the exact same thing in return. It doesn't bug me as much if they just mean finish the job in whatever way, although that still bugs me some. Things happen sometimes, y'know? If your partner makes a habit of it, it's a problem, sure.

Oh, and...

I'd have liked this better if the genders were all changed to neutral, because I'm unclear on whether I can say yeah, I've been there, if I've been there, but with a different gender.

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